There’s a house in my town that has me dreaming big. It’s not just about its worn charm or the porch that feels made for conversations—it’s about what it could be. A space where neighbors become friends, where belonging isn’t just a feeling but a practice, and where the simple act of showing up can transform a community. This is the story of that dream and why being awake to the people around us matters more than ever.

As we head into the holiday season, we often focus on giving—finding the perfect gift or offering support to others. But what about receiving? It’s a vulnerable act that requires trust and openness, and yet, it’s just as essential to building connection and belonging. Sometimes, the most meaningful thing we can do is simply allow ourselves to be seen and accepted.

Belonging isn’t something you’re born into or stumble upon—it’s something you create. Like building a custom truck, crafting a true sense of connection takes intention, effort, and heart.

In this post, I explore how self-awareness, intentional choices, and meaningful connections help you design a life where you truly belong.

"Agency you don’t use is agency you lose." This powerful reminder has me thinking about the ways we can be more intentional with our lives.

Instead of quietly stepping back or going through the motions, what if we embraced a mindset of active engagement? By using our agency purposefully, we can create environments that reflect our values, build meaningful connections, and foster a true sense of belonging wherever we are.

As a belonging designer, I strongly believe that belonging is something we can cultivate for ourselves and for others. By being aware of what I receive and intentional in what I give, I can create belonging and connection.

What things make you feel like you belong?